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Wow, 7 Years Already (since undergrad)

This past Wednesday, I paid a visit to my alma mater (UIC) to be among the panelists to share my post-college experiences of working in the corporate world.  It was part of an “All Campus Worship” event that was being hosted by a number of student Christian organizations on campus and since I was heavily involved with Asian American InterVarsity all throughout my undergrad years and as such, there was absolutely no way I could not accept invitation to take part in this event.  My fiancée also took part in this event as a fellow panelist which was pretty neat.

Well, I am really glad I took part in this.  The panel discussion was inside of a small room with about 8 students and 4 panelists and all of the students were studying something either in the business or engineering field.  Very small, very intimate, and in the short 45 minutes that we had, I, along with the other panelists, were able to talk about a lot with these students who were eager to learn from our experiences.

As the panel discussion was taking place, I could not help but to reflect on my own 7 years of being out of school and working in corporate America.  Well, these are/were my thoughts, some of which I shared with the students and some of which I did not choose to share.  These are in no particular order, by the way.

  1. It’s so very important to carefully pick your career choice.  You don’t have to get it 100% right the first time and yes, it’s true that people make drastic career changes all the time and many people are very successful in doing so.  With that said, however, don’t just flippantly pick your career choice without doing some serious thinking about it.  Do you like the field you want to go into?  Are you good at it (or at the very least, possess some relevant talents and skills)?  Can you picture yourself enjoying your work?  Money is important (more on that later), but don’t let it be your primary motivation.  Some people say that money will follow when you put your heart into your passion, even if it means you go into a field where good money is hard to come by (i.e. creative arts)–which I don’t completely agree with.  The truth is, there are career fields where it’s very easy to make a lot of money and there are career fields where making good money is extremely hard.  Regardless, choose a career field that will actually fulfill you.  Thankfully I’ve never had to experience this first hand, but I’ve heard and read over & over again your life becomes something very sad when you spent 40, 50, 60, 70 hours per week doing something you do not enjoy doing.
  2. As a Christian, I (you – if you are a Christian) am called to be a Christian in the workplace as well.  And from having been in the working world since the age of 16, it is quite difficult to be an effective Christian in the workplace.  There have been countless number of times when I became uneasy sharing anything that has to do with my spiritual life with my coworkers.  Many, many people in the world (including those in corporate America) have extremely unfavorable opinions concerning Christians/Church/religion and many people (again, including those in corporate America) will have absolutely no problem voicing their distaste/distrust/disgust with their perception of Christianity.  There have been so many times when I’ve felt uncomfortable dipping my head for 10 seconds to pray for my meal during lunch with coworkers.  There have been so many times when I’ve felt uneasy sharing my church-filled weekend plans with my coworkers.  There have been times when I’ve gotten nervous sharing details of my relationship with Christ with my coworkers.  They still happen and they probably will for a long time to come.  The desire to fit in with the crowd doesn’t simply fade away after your adolescent years–I still have that desire.  But I have to fight against it.  Actually, I am (you are – if you are a Christian) called by Jesus to fight against that desire and boldly proclaim Christ.
  3. Money is important and developing good money habits when you’re in college is crucial.  This is something I wish I knew when I was in college.  I wish people around me told me I should start saving aggressively even when I’m in college.  I wish people told me I would never run out of things to spend my money on–car, house, utilities, church, charitable organizations, missions, dining out, groceries, engagement ring, wedding, retirement, and the list goes on and on and on.  Actually, people around me probably did tell me all this stuff but I just never paid attention.  Thankfully, I’ve learned some really good money habits in these last few years, but again, at least when it comes to money, it’s better to earn your lessons earlier than later.  Having poor money habits will cost you–not only financially but it will affect your relationships (the #1 cause of divorce is money, I believe), your health (I just read last night in a book that your FICO score can impact your insurance premiums), your spiritual life (when you have no money and are in ridiculous amounts of debt, you’ll have no money to give to church/missions/those in need and this will most likely affect your relationship with Jesus), and your career (prospective employers have a habit of checking up on your credit).  Jesus talked about money A WHOLE LOT over the course of his ministry.  On a sort-of-a-tangential-yet-somewhat-related side note, did you know that The Parable of the Talents in Matthew 25 now shows up as The Parable of the Bags of Gold in the latest edition of the NIV Bible?
  4. It’s important to set yourself apart from the rest of your peers in college.  It is only getting more and more difficult to find jobs and the level of competition has nowhere to go but up.  The stock market was in a cheery mood yesterday because the U.S. Unemployment Rate fell to 8.8 %, the lowest since March of 2009.  And while it’s true that the unemployment rate has been falling and many think that the unemployment rate will fall to somewhere around 6% in a few years, I still think that it’ll only get harder to make a living for those of us who are living in the States.  The talent pool seems to be exploding across various places in the world and they are competing for jobs even here in the US.  And while the talent pool as well as the quality of education is improving in various parts of the world, it appears that here in the US, it’s only getting harder to get quality education.  With all the government spending cuts that are/will be taking place, cost of education will only go up, and I think that the cost of college education here in the States is absolutely r-i-d-i-c-u-l-o-u-s.  And it seems pretty logical to me that less education will lead to less talent, which will lead to difficult times finding jobs.  Anyhow, going back to my point, set yourself apart.  Take internships, read books that relate to your career field of choice, develop your skillset on your own and don’t simply rely on your coursework to get you to where you want to be.

Phew, that was a lot.  That’s about all I have to share for now. :)

 

3-on-3 Basketball Tournament!

Do you like to play basketball?  Are you free on Saturday, 8/14?  Do you like helping people raise money for a good cause?  If so, you MUST read on.

I’ve been helping out with organizing a 3-on-3 basketball tournament for my church (Lakeview Church) and we’re looking for teams to sign up!

We have a men’s retreat coming up in September and thought that holding a 3-on-3 tournament would be an excellent way to raise some funds for the retreat.  Here are the details:

When? Saturday, 8/14/2010 – Starts at 10 AM

Where? Christian Liberty Academy (502 W. Euclid Ave. Arlington Heights, IL  60004)

Who can participate? High school & Older

How much will it cost? $40 per team.  You can have up to 4 players per team.

How do I register? Click here to print out the registration form.  Fill it out along with a NON-REFUNDABLE check for $40 to Lakeview Church (65 E. Palatine Rd. #313  Prospect Heights, IL  60070).

When do I need to send in my registration by? Sunday, 8/8/2010

What do I get if I win? $$ + Bragging rights

3-On-3 Basketball Tournament

Sign up TODAY!  Please let me know if you have any questions!

Grand Opening of Our Church – From a Worship Leader's Perspective

This upcoming Sunday is going to be a pretty big & important day at the church I’m serving as a worship leader–it’s the grand opening day at our Vernon Hills location.  We moved into the Sullivan Community Center (SCC) a few months back and had our first service there on Sunday, 1/24.   Since then we’ve mailed out tens of thousands of invitation mailers to homes within a 5-mile radius of the church and I’m told that we should expect around 100 – 200 visitors this Sunday.  We normally have about 50-60 adults at our Sunday service so 100+ visitors would be a huge deal for us.  We, as a congregation, have also been encouraged in these last few weeks to invite others to the grand opening and I am certainly hopeful that there will be many visitors present at church on Sunday as a result of personal invitations from our congregants.

Some may argue that our “grand opening” this Sunday may not qualify as one since prior to our move to SCC, we had been meeting in Palatine for about 3 years.  As for me, I really don’t care. :)   Grand opening or not, I’m going to treat it as such while hoping and expecting that we will have a ton of visitors to our church on Sunday morning.  And while it would certainly be nice to have Christian visitors there who are looking to change churches for all sorts of various reasons, what I would really love to see is to have a lot of people there who are not Christians.  People who are unchurched.  People who don’t have a church home.  People who have been away from the whole “church scene” for a long time but have decided to give church, Jesus, and Christians one more try.  Honestly, I’d rather have 10 unchurched people/non-Christians visit us than 100 people who are Christians.

And from my point of view as a worship leader–it would be kinda cool to have 100+ Christian visitors come check us out this Sunday and see a bigger group of people be engaged in worship.  It would be kinda cool to have a bunch of new people who are already at least sort of familiar with the songs we typically sing at church and be able to sing them with us.  It would be great if some of these Christian visitors are skilled musicians who are already familiar with the songs we normally sing on Sunday mornings and are wanting to help in the worship ministry.

BUT it would be even better if we have visitors join us this Sunday who have not been to church in a long time… perhaps never.  People who think that the songs we sing are strange.  People who can’t help but to feel uneasy and awkward during Christian worship just because they’re so unfamiliar with it.  People who don’t know how to pray.

Up until a few years ago, I used to be a member of a church where many (most?) of the congregants had “immigrated” from other churches.  And when I think back on those days, all I can say is that while it was nice to have a lot of additional people show up at church on Sunday mornings, at the same time, it felt a little bit pointless.  It felt pointless because even though the church had a sudden significant jump in numbers, there was absolutely no net increase in the number of Christians.  All of these newcomers had already heard the gospel and they were already members of an existing community of Christians.

So with all this said, I am looking forward to this Sunday.  And I will be praying that people who are unfamiliar with Jesus and His church will come join us this Sunday.  And if that’s the case, this Sunday might be my first Sunday as a worship leader where I don’t mind people who simply look lost during worship. :)

Playing background music during worship service

Almost every Sunday morning, I am needed to provide live background music, either on the guitar or the piano, at church worship services.  Usually this takes place during the offertory and times of corporate prayers. Since I’ve been doing this almost every Sunday for the last 12 years or so, it comes very naturally to me. It helps that improvising comes very naturally to me. Put some sheet music in front of my eyes and I will freeze up (reason why I disliked piano lessons so much…) but take them away from me and I can sit at the piano and play whatever comes to my head for hours… literally. I understand, however, that for a lot of musicians, it doesn’t come as naturally. They could be extremely skikeyboardlled instrumentalists, but without the guidance of sheet music or chord charts, a lot of people tend to have a difficult time providing live background music, especially ones that would work well at worship services.

So with that said, I thought I would provide some tips on this very topic. I gave a seminar on this topic at my church to our keyboardists and they found it helpful. Hopefully it’ll be of some help to you as well–especially if you’re having to provide live background music during church services.

[ I. Support the Plot ]

Can you imagine watching a movie without any background music whatsoever?  Just how incredibly dull would that be?  Sound tracks in music are powerful in the ways in which they support the plot.  I’ll bet that a good number of movie sound tracks echo in your heads whenever you think about a movie.  For instance, I remember that one scene in ‘Forrest Gump’ where Forrest runs for the first time in his life and I heard that sound track come on… I remember just how incredibly powerful that scene was.  Without that music in the background, it would not have been nearly as powerful or emotion-provoking.  And that’s just one example I can provide among countless many.

With that said, when you’re in the position to provide live background music during a church service, determine what the plot is.  If you’re asked to play the piano during a corporate prayer time immediately following a sermon centered on the crucifixion of Christ and your pastor is asking the congregation to meditate on Christ’s suffering, the last thing you’ll want to do is to play some kind of a happy-sounding music.  On the other hand, if this is Easter Sunday and your pastor just preached a message on the resurrected Christ and His victory over death, you’d probably want to play something that sounds uplifting.

And remember to change up your music if the “plot” changes.  Whenever I’m playing background tunes while someone is leading the congregation through various prayer topics, I listen carefully to what the person is saying.  For instance, it is very possible that following a sermon that focuses on the cross, the preacher will ask the congregation to first meditate on the cross, repent of their sins, and then give thanks to God for His grace, followed by giving praises to God for His victory over sin and death.  Well, the plot just changed multiple times right there.  It would be a good idea for your background music to support the changing plot.

[ II. Don't Become the Main Attraction ]

When you’re providing live background music during a church service, remember that your music is not to be main attraction.  As stated above, it should support whatever is taking place without attracting unnecessary attention.  Here are some tips that will help your music (and you) to stay in the background:

  • Be generic: Try to avoid playing melodies that your congregants may recognize; otherwise, they may start to follow your playing instead of focusing on whatever else they’re supposed to focus on.  And when that happens, you’ve just become the main attraction.  There have been numerous times where I was praying alongside other congregants and the keyboardist started to play very familiar tunes–such as ‘Amazing Grace’ or ‘Great is Thy Faithfulness’.  Well, things like that make it nearly impossible for me to pray.  I probably suffer from it more than most other folks being that I’m so music-minded, but still… I can’t imagine how familiar tunes like that would not draw people’s attention.
  • Be simple: Play simple things.  Don’t play so many different notes.  You’re not playing at a piano recital and you’ve got no one to impress when there’s worship going on.  :)
  • Repetition: Be repetitious in your playing.  While you don’t have to stick to playing the exact same notes every x measures, it might not be a bad idea to stick to some sort of a basic chord progression.  When we hear music that is repetitious, we tend have an easier time letting it fade away into background.

[ III. Volume Control ]

When you watch a movie (or a TV show or a play, etc.), note how when the background music is playing in scenes where there are dialogues being exchanged between the characters, the volume of the music is lot lower than when the music is being played in scenes where this is not the case.  This obviously allows the audience to make out what the characters are saying.  In the same way, when you’re having to play an instrument in the background during a church service and someone is speaking over your playing, you should soften your playing whenever this person is speaking.  Don’t just turn that volume knob on your keyboard (or depend on your sound person to lower your volume for you) but actually soften your playing.  When the person is done speaking, well, you can then play louder.  Go with the flow.

Well, if you’re having to provide live background music at church (or in various other settings) I hope this post has been of help to you.

Support the plot, stay in the background, and watch your volume!

-Junho